INFP Princess

infp- the dreamer

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Anonymous asked: any advice for infps trying to get over a huge crush (or relationship)? its been really really hard to move on :( thank you and love your blog!

Honey just come here!
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Infps are either crush sluts which means that you like the “idea” of someone but you get bored and move on to another idea really fast, or they crush hard and get super infatuated. Since you clearly belong to the latter category, it’s much harder to rid yourself of those butterflies and heart palpitations. Really, the only thing that rids you of crushes is time. Immerse yourself in activities you like to do, have a sleepover with your besties or a lengthy conversation with yourself (this is actually so rejuvenating). As time passes, there will be others and before you know it you’ll be looking at a new nerdy cutie like-
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So don’t worry bby! I know it seems like everything revolves around that and even things you try to do to distract yourself from it lead you back to your current crush…but with time and patience you’ll see him/her and be like-

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Love,
- Your infp princess :) x

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Anonymous asked: Oh also thanks for your advice with my friends. Just having someone to air it out with is very calming and comforting. I may not actually take it but it is good advice nonetheless that at least helped me.

Thank you sweat pea! I want to become a psychologist when I get older so hearing things like that is just <3

Also, whether you take my advice or not is totally up to you! I’m no expert on these things I just tell you guys what I’d tell a friend and I try to keep it as real as possible (for an infp).

Love, 
- Your infp princess

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Anonymous asked: Ok it's me again the one with friend issues. I saw my extroverted friend finally after 6 weeks of basically nothing. U know how us INFP get disappointed w/ reality even if it the expectation were a too high n disappointment is irrational. Well I feel as if my extroverted friend has disappointed me in that kind of way and its almost like I can't fully trust her. She is so great n understands me. We've been friends for just a year now but it was an instant connection. I feel it's not fair to her

Expectations..I know what you mean..
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The thing about us is that since our dominant function is introverted feeling, we base our perspectives about others on how they make us feel and feeling, my friend, is a very fluid thing. You’re right it’s not fair of us to expect so much from others! We can’t presume that everybody is going to make us feel the way they made us previously feel and then be disappointed because they snapped at us once or suddenly love them because they showed kindness. 

Spend more time with your friend, try to reconnect and bond. Don’t withdraw your trust from her unless she has really done something to break it! A lot of the time, if you were at one time, able to feel very connected with a person, that same connection can easily be rekindled with time and effort. Also your friendship has only been a year and you haven’t hung out with her all the time what with your other attached friend and all, so spend more time together, bring up topics you both bond over and if you can’t feel the same connection, just make more friends! 

How to make friends:
1) Awkwardly smile at them:

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2) Go up to them and introduce yourself. Tell them something that is a honest compliment instead of “you seem really cool, we should hang out” you could say “you seem like a very grounded, genuine person, we should be friends!”

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3) Most people will find it a little weird but also feel good.
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4) You will hang out and spend time getting to know each other better:
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See? Follow these exact instructions (but only if you want honey bee) and you will make 567.98 friends in no time!

Love,
- Your infp princess

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Anonymous asked: hi there infp princess. just wondering - why did you delete your poetry blog? i also love your poems btw :)

OMG ARE PEOPLE WHO LIKE MY POETRY EVEN REAL. Pants, is this you? O.o (pants is my best friend) 
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Thank you so much! It warms my heart to hear that my writing is appreciated I mean I just-
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I deleted my poetry blog because I read that most publishers don’t publish things that are already online and one of my dreams is to publish a poetry book so :| Which is of course not going to happen in a while because my poems are kinda eh compared to so many amazing poems out on tumblr so I feel like an amateur. In time I hope I get better though :S 
Also it was kind of an impulsive decision which I made when I was feeling frustrated…I really had no idea that people actually liked it though :/

But seriously…Thank you so much for that it made my day and I was having a shitty one.
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Love,
-Your infp princess

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MBTI Reactions To…

intuitiverse:

Justin Bieber (Requested)

INTJ

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"Just. No."

INFP

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He deserves his respect, but I’m not a fan of him. That’s it. -Nadia

INFJ

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I feel Jared was appropriate for this one. - Alex

Disclaimer: Again, this topic requires a subjective opinion. We answered purely in our own opinions. 

(Credits to GIF Makers)

P.S. Remember, you can submit topics on “MBTI Reactions To…” here.

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Anonymous asked: Hi (: Here a spanish talker fan, so sorry for my english D: I love your blog, and i'm a infp girl; and I need some help... I have a crush with an infp boy but... I can't talk with him, when he comes to talk to me I feel so nervous and run away... :( before, with all my courage I told him that I like him... And the last time,(after I running away, lol) he walked at the same place than me, but quickly looked away... when he was far away he looked me Please, a tip? Sorry haha Im not good in that D:

Honey bee don’t apologize! You and your infp crush situation are both absolutely adorable.

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After you told him you liked him how did he react? His repeated staring at you may mean that he likes you but with infps it’s hard to know..
Both of you as infps, are shy and if you aren’t his friend, just dropping the fact that you have feelings on him might have overwhelmed his infp heart. I’m not the best at how to get boys to like you but I really think you should just start by being friends with him!

What to you know about him beside the fact that this is you when you look at him:
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Be confident and get to know his favourite flavour of ice cream, books, movies and his personal values. Building a good friendship will actually reduce the awkwardness instead of increase it believe it or not! And who knows? Maybe once you’re friends he’ll open up to you about his possible feelings for you!
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Just be yourself, slow down, and get to know him better! But in the end all of us are awkward and hopeless and strange so all I can really say is:

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Love,
- Your infp princess

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Anonymous asked: Me encanta tu blog (/>w<)/

Te amo querido! Tu eres hermosa…gracias!
Confession: I used Google translate and my Spanish knowledge from Dora
But seriously…I still can’t believe that people are actually sweet enough to send me messages like this!
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Love,
- Your infp princess :) x

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Anonymous asked: lol i'm going to google to search 'S.S.P', i like your poetry :)

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I have never had someone message me about my poetry so thank you so much! I’m sorry I deleted my poetry blog :( It was kind of an impulsive decision but I guess it’s for the best!
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Anyway, you are now my favouritest person ever and I love you.
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Love,
- Your infp princess

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Dear MBTI people!

 Message me things about infps that make them jerks. I know very well that we are not all about hugs and sparkles so rant to me about the ways in which infps can be assbutts too and I promise you no offense will be taken! This is for a post about the “dark side of infps”. Any input will be appreciated and taken into account. I am currently wearing my bulletproof heart armor so fire away!

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GIVE ME ALL THE HATE

Love,
- Your infp princess

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